Relationships are tricky, because they have unwritten rules that nobody discusses but everyone is expected to know of. Truth be told, all the rules in dating are unwritten, but there are certain rules that are so obvious they need not be explained. Sadly however, we’re here to break down 5 of those rules because some guys are just plain ignorant. Here are things that you should never say to a woman unless you want to deal with a scorned woman.
1) You Look Like…
No. Stop. Don’t even complete that sentence. Don’t ever make the fatal mistake of comparing her with someone else. Chances are you would compare her to someone who she completely despises. Let her be the only referral point of your attraction scale. At least out loud, if you tend to think otherwise.
2) You Look Fine
2) You Look Fine
What’s worse than saying you look like (insert any random hot girl)? It’s saying you look fine. Fine? What the hell does that even mean? Telling a woman she looks fine is like telling her she’s sweet or she’s nice. The dessert that you ate last night was sweet too. Oh, and the grocery store guy is also nice because he gives you free candies. Please do us a favour and never use this sentence ever.
3) You Sound Like My Mother
3) You Sound Like My Mother
The only time using this is kind of alright is when you’re hundred percent confident she likes your mother or if you’re just good heartedly giving her a hard time. But even then this is something which will be used against you in a legitimate argument later. So, just scrap any talks of mothers, yours or hers both.
4) Don’t Get So Excited About
4) Don’t Get So Excited About
If we love a celebrity, I mean really love a celebrity then just looking at his picture won’t cut in. There is a compulsive need to know everything about him, find every last bit of trivia, videos, interviews while simultaneously discussing about him to everyone we know. And it’s not a choice. We need to, have to do this, so stop asking us to calm down.
5) How Many Men Have You Been With?
5) How Many Men Have You Been With?
Just as she would never ask you about the number of women you’ve been with, you should never ask her about the number of men she has dated or slept with. Why? Because the number doesn't matter, there is nothing to be gained from that knowledge. However, there is a lot to lose, which includes her interest in you too.
By Nikita Mukherjee
By Nikita Mukherjee
