In this world of mad race where people are constantly trying to make themselves happy by making more and more money , actually end up losing interest in everything else . This is even true for couples who stop loving their other halves as they used to do earlier. Many relationships are devastated on this account that people start treating it as secondary or just another thing in this crowded world. But relationships are tender , and hence they need care and affection to remain deep rooted and affixed . Otherwise, there can be heart breaks and series of trauma and depression that might follow. Here are some ways to add spice to one’s relationship.
10.
Say ‘I love you’ in a different way!
Every emotion needs to be properly fed. The love that we hold true for someone has to be expressed . It is advisory to say the three most special words to your partner in a really romantic way and that too daily. At least, there should be a signal that the effort of love expression is coming out of you badly. Imagine, the entire day passing away and you have not spoken “I love you “even once. This type of attitude can take you no longer. Also, a flat and lifeless kind of “I Love You ‘‘ should not be merely thrown out of the mouth , rather this wish should come in the most creative way possible, dipped in real love . Either wake up early to prepare a bed time tea , without letting your partner know that , or bring some fragrant flowers with ‘I love you “ tag !There can be a million ways.
Every emotion needs to be properly fed. The love that we hold true for someone has to be expressed . It is advisory to say the three most special words to your partner in a really romantic way and that too daily. At least, there should be a signal that the effort of love expression is coming out of you badly. Imagine, the entire day passing away and you have not spoken “I love you “even once. This type of attitude can take you no longer. Also, a flat and lifeless kind of “I Love You ‘‘ should not be merely thrown out of the mouth , rather this wish should come in the most creative way possible, dipped in real love . Either wake up early to prepare a bed time tea , without letting your partner know that , or bring some fragrant flowers with ‘I love you “ tag !There can be a million ways.
9.
Surprise gifts
These can seriously bring out any relationships higher than anything ! Giving gifts , and that too surprise gifts , can actually help to set the realization that someone is so much concerned about having you as his / her partner . Moreover, this custom should not be one sided . The gifts can be travel tickets to take out some romantic togetherness time, or may include the things helping your partner in re-inculcating his long lost hobbies and interest. Above all , surprises are best if they are self arranged or hand – made. This gives the clear idea about how much you care because giving someone your own time is the most precious gift ever.
These can seriously bring out any relationships higher than anything ! Giving gifts , and that too surprise gifts , can actually help to set the realization that someone is so much concerned about having you as his / her partner . Moreover, this custom should not be one sided . The gifts can be travel tickets to take out some romantic togetherness time, or may include the things helping your partner in re-inculcating his long lost hobbies and interest. Above all , surprises are best if they are self arranged or hand – made. This gives the clear idea about how much you care because giving someone your own time is the most precious gift ever.
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Keep a lot of pet names
The nick names or the pet names that lovers generally give to each other are somewhere from the very core of love and the very bottom of their heart. These can be funny to add twists. These can be teasing but not to a very great deal . Keeping a million names on different situation tells how much you know about your partner. For instance , one can be a ‘Dexter’ in studies to a ‘powder-puff gal ‘ in speedy moves , or may be a ‘ Shin Chan’ in naughtiness . It is to be realized to your partner that he/ she is special to you ! This naming gaming is just one way . One can come with several others.
The nick names or the pet names that lovers generally give to each other are somewhere from the very core of love and the very bottom of their heart. These can be funny to add twists. These can be teasing but not to a very great deal . Keeping a million names on different situation tells how much you know about your partner. For instance , one can be a ‘Dexter’ in studies to a ‘powder-puff gal ‘ in speedy moves , or may be a ‘ Shin Chan’ in naughtiness . It is to be realized to your partner that he/ she is special to you ! This naming gaming is just one way . One can come with several others.
7.
Take a break!
Once in a while, couples should take a break from their melancholy routine and go out and have some fun . May be some amusement park , or some old monumental hub , or a movie show or a gaming arena. One should not stick to conventional methods , Instead should be ready to try out some funny and seemingly weird things that later prove to be amazing .one can skip going to office or college some day , or may arrive home early at some unexpected time . These kind of outings can be really worth if they are planned at night. Late night discs and restaurants and even casinos can be great hangouts with your partner!
Once in a while, couples should take a break from their melancholy routine and go out and have some fun . May be some amusement park , or some old monumental hub , or a movie show or a gaming arena. One should not stick to conventional methods , Instead should be ready to try out some funny and seemingly weird things that later prove to be amazing .one can skip going to office or college some day , or may arrive home early at some unexpected time . These kind of outings can be really worth if they are planned at night. Late night discs and restaurants and even casinos can be great hangouts with your partner!
6.
Take out time to work out together
This may be indoors or outdoors! Researchers have said that sweaty sessions of exercising with your partner can actually increase the desire for love making and also enhances the stamina by increased blood circulation. We should look forward to the physical activities that are of common interest to both the lovers. It may involve running across a scenic pathway or indoor gyming , whatever pleases ! This trick of exercising together will certainly help you bring closer by keeping you together at the times when one is generally working out alone ! This would help you to know your partner better.
This may be indoors or outdoors! Researchers have said that sweaty sessions of exercising with your partner can actually increase the desire for love making and also enhances the stamina by increased blood circulation. We should look forward to the physical activities that are of common interest to both the lovers. It may involve running across a scenic pathway or indoor gyming , whatever pleases ! This trick of exercising together will certainly help you bring closer by keeping you together at the times when one is generally working out alone ! This would help you to know your partner better.
5.
Have a discussion
Often relationships end because there is not any discussion about the things that affect a couple. Once in a while, there should be a talk of how one feels in a relationship , what all is going wrong , if any and what one partner expects from the other ! the discussions should be aimed at leading to a contented conclusion . Also, it is to be ensured that the volume and flow of discussion should not be like waging a war against one another . It should be polite and positive, instead. Couples should discuss about their needs , their love life and whatever affects them , without hesitation. But, don’t forget , this session of discussion should not turn into debate and should culminate with the practice of expressing love!
Often relationships end because there is not any discussion about the things that affect a couple. Once in a while, there should be a talk of how one feels in a relationship , what all is going wrong , if any and what one partner expects from the other ! the discussions should be aimed at leading to a contented conclusion . Also, it is to be ensured that the volume and flow of discussion should not be like waging a war against one another . It should be polite and positive, instead. Couples should discuss about their needs , their love life and whatever affects them , without hesitation. But, don’t forget , this session of discussion should not turn into debate and should culminate with the practice of expressing love!
4.
H-C-H: Hugging, cuddling and holding!
this is what bridges the physical gaps in couples . At times , When they watch TV , or lie in bed , there should not be distances ! They should take out time and excuses to stay together and close . What would be as pleasurable as lying snugly in your lover’s arms ? While walking , why not hold hands ? These are the simplest practices that give the hints of love and intimacy. Cuddling is yet another enhanced way . When we cuddle someone , we actually remove all the fears and worries off their minds by bringing them close to us . Hugging tightly also rates the extent of love and compassion the couple has!
this is what bridges the physical gaps in couples . At times , When they watch TV , or lie in bed , there should not be distances ! They should take out time and excuses to stay together and close . What would be as pleasurable as lying snugly in your lover’s arms ? While walking , why not hold hands ? These are the simplest practices that give the hints of love and intimacy. Cuddling is yet another enhanced way . When we cuddle someone , we actually remove all the fears and worries off their minds by bringing them close to us . Hugging tightly also rates the extent of love and compassion the couple has!
3.
Re-design your personal room to a love paradise
This is what most relationships lack and this is in fact the prime reason why people feel the need to spice up their love life. Their bedroom is just a room. But for lovers, it should be no less than a heaven. And thus , it should be designed and adorned in a way that it gives the feeling of heaven alone. Love life is something that feeds off all of the senses and your bedroom should facilitate that sensual stimulation. The sheets , pillows , curtains all should be worked upon . The light should be warm and healing. The room fresher should also be considered and must be soothingly refreshing . Think about all those little touches that add a sense of coziness and sensuality that will really help couples reconnect.
This is what most relationships lack and this is in fact the prime reason why people feel the need to spice up their love life. Their bedroom is just a room. But for lovers, it should be no less than a heaven. And thus , it should be designed and adorned in a way that it gives the feeling of heaven alone. Love life is something that feeds off all of the senses and your bedroom should facilitate that sensual stimulation. The sheets , pillows , curtains all should be worked upon . The light should be warm and healing. The room fresher should also be considered and must be soothingly refreshing . Think about all those little touches that add a sense of coziness and sensuality that will really help couples reconnect.
2.
Plan a date at rooftop
Plan a romantic date or a similar surprise at the end of a hectic week . one can choose the spot to be an aloof rooftop or some less visited restro with violinists and guitarists at your service ! Keep the lights dim and play some slow romantic symphony. Imagine, two chairs around a small round table all alone on the rooftop at the very midnight , and two lovers enjoying the relishing chocolates and red wine . To add , a little more tinge of romance , the couples can have a ball dance and may come up with gifts . Also you need not wait for some anniversary day to plan this day . A random day turned into a special one brings out more fun!
Caution: low doses of red wine keep the flow of love going , but higher levels can play havoc and cause a real hangover by the morning . Try eating chocolates with each other ‘s hands . This can be a perfect romantic date!
Plan a romantic date or a similar surprise at the end of a hectic week . one can choose the spot to be an aloof rooftop or some less visited restro with violinists and guitarists at your service ! Keep the lights dim and play some slow romantic symphony. Imagine, two chairs around a small round table all alone on the rooftop at the very midnight , and two lovers enjoying the relishing chocolates and red wine . To add , a little more tinge of romance , the couples can have a ball dance and may come up with gifts . Also you need not wait for some anniversary day to plan this day . A random day turned into a special one brings out more fun!
Caution: low doses of red wine keep the flow of love going , but higher levels can play havoc and cause a real hangover by the morning . Try eating chocolates with each other ‘s hands . This can be a perfect romantic date!
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Never stop communicating
Communication is the life to any relationship. If you stop communicating for more than three days, you will start shedding a part of the interest In your relationships , researchers have said .This is shocking and is the real start of how one start feeling ‘ caught up’ or ‘stuck ‘ in the relation . Though, expressing love is essential every day, but communication has no substitutes . This is to be noted that communication involves speaking as well as listening. this should not be one sided. While you are out for some tour or in a long distance relationship, if you stop communicating you will start losing your relationships. Phone calling , video calling and even messages can work . But ,nothing can be more romantic than taking time to meet!
By Julius Choudhury
Communication is the life to any relationship. If you stop communicating for more than three days, you will start shedding a part of the interest In your relationships , researchers have said .This is shocking and is the real start of how one start feeling ‘ caught up’ or ‘stuck ‘ in the relation . Though, expressing love is essential every day, but communication has no substitutes . This is to be noted that communication involves speaking as well as listening. this should not be one sided. While you are out for some tour or in a long distance relationship, if you stop communicating you will start losing your relationships. Phone calling , video calling and even messages can work . But ,nothing can be more romantic than taking time to meet!
By Julius Choudhury
