Making a relationship work is a humungous task. A lot goes into surviving arguments and ordeals. And you surely don’t want to be putting all that effort only to be disappointed each time. A failed relationship is not always a man’s fault. While a lot of women may make you believe otherwise, there are a lot of ways in which they can go so terribly wrong, there’s only little you can do to save your relationship. We bring to you 7 such deal breakers that will help you come out of a break up guilt free.
Lack Of Respect
Mutual respect is the pillar of any bond. Most men in their 20s are expected to take some wise and a lot of not-so-wise decisions. A relationship demands certain understanding and respect from both the ends. She could disagree all she wants but if she cannot back you up in front of your friends, or stand by your side, she probably lacks the respect for you. And that my friend, is the first deal breaker.
Flirting
Flirting
Knowing that your girl is enjoying another man’s company more than you is just disturbing. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with healthy flirting. But when she starts overdoing it, it simply means she has lost all interest in you. A one-sided relationship cannot drag on for too long.
Negligence
Negligence
Does she look past you when you meet? While it is perfectly fine for her life to not revolve solely around you, it is appalling when she doesn’t even acknowledge your presence. If she is not paying any attention to you, especially when in public, it’s time to get the hint.
Lying
Lying
Lying is an indication of a crack widening. Petty lies are totally okay, we use them as excuses too sometimes. But the real problem arises when it borders on to bigger things. They may not affect you at present, but chances are that it may soon move on to the most fundamental vows in your relationship.
Constant Criticism
Constant Criticism
Disagreement is one thing, nasty criticism is another. There is nobody in the world who is entitled to belittle you. A lot of women develop the habit of looking down upon their men, critiquing everything they do, and definitely not in the right spirit. Criticism is supposed to help you evolve. But if you feel her words sting, its time to walk off. If she cannot accept your flaws, there is no reason why she should have any importance in your life.
Addiction
Addiction
Substance abuse brings with itself a dozen of other problems. If her alcoholic or drug intake is disturbingly high, her priorities will soon begin to change. Her life would only revolve around alcohol and drugs and your relationship will take a back seat. We’re not discouraging you from trying your luck. Just letting you know how feeble the chances are.
Infidelity
Infidelity
There is nothing more shattering than a girlfriend cheating on you. While you may have a lot of frivolous affairs in your early twenties, when you finally begin to date a woman you actually love, disloyalty is the last thing you want from her. Just like a man cheating on a girl is unacceptable, the same rules goes for women too. There can be no justification to infidelity.
By Ankush Bahuguna
By Ankush Bahuguna
