Maybe she doesn’t want to lose you, but she displays her affection in all the wrong ways. After all, jealousy is an ugly emotion. It brings out all the negative thoughts in a person’s mind - fears, resentment and insecurities. While it’s good to feel wanted and important in a relationship, if she cannot place her trust on you, it can be pretty awful. So, are you one of those whose girlfriend’s jealousy is taking a toll on your relationship? Read these 5 signs to find out.
1
You can’t mention another woman
Whether it’s your colleague, your boss or the waitress at the nearby café that takes your daily orders, your girlfriend’s extreme behavior makes it impossible for you to discuss about any woman in any context. Even though these women have no interest in you sexually, daily interaction with them is a part of your life. So, are you expected to never talk to them again?
2
Whether it’s your colleague, your boss or the waitress at the nearby café that takes your daily orders, your girlfriend’s extreme behavior makes it impossible for you to discuss about any woman in any context. Even though these women have no interest in you sexually, daily interaction with them is a part of your life. So, are you expected to never talk to them again?
2
She asks a lot of questions
(that don’t have a correct answer)
Women are curious beings as they ask an overwhelming number of harmless questions on a daily basis. However, in the eyes of a jealous woman, all these questions have no satisfactory answer. She often asks you questions to bait you into giving a wrong answer- an answer that will immediately make you the bad guy. The question is- do you want to be in a relationship where you’re constantly playing the bad guy?
3
Women are curious beings as they ask an overwhelming number of harmless questions on a daily basis. However, in the eyes of a jealous woman, all these questions have no satisfactory answer. She often asks you questions to bait you into giving a wrong answer- an answer that will immediately make you the bad guy. The question is- do you want to be in a relationship where you’re constantly playing the bad guy?
3
She is insecure about the relationship
Her insecurities about your other relationships, including with the same sex forces her to examine the bond between the two of you. Then comes the constant questions, ‘are we okay?’, ‘where is this relationship heading?’- so on and so forth. Nothing crumbles a relationship faster than lack of trust and constant questions about its stability.
4
Her insecurities about your other relationships, including with the same sex forces her to examine the bond between the two of you. Then comes the constant questions, ‘are we okay?’, ‘where is this relationship heading?’- so on and so forth. Nothing crumbles a relationship faster than lack of trust and constant questions about its stability.
4
She monitors you on social media sites
As if the constant calls, WhatsApp messages and location updates were not enough, now she also stalks you online, going through your news feed to find out what you’re doing and what exactly you’re thinking. Not only does she trust you in real life, she also doesn’t trust your online self, even though you’re as trustworthy both offline and online. What next? She asks for your password. Yes, she has extreme jealousy issues.
5
As if the constant calls, WhatsApp messages and location updates were not enough, now she also stalks you online, going through your news feed to find out what you’re doing and what exactly you’re thinking. Not only does she trust you in real life, she also doesn’t trust your online self, even though you’re as trustworthy both offline and online. What next? She asks for your password. Yes, she has extreme jealousy issues.
5
She accuses of you flirting with other women
Every nice gesture meted out to another woman- be it out of kindness or politeness is considered to be flirting by your jealous girlfriend. Just as you cannot mention any other woman in front of her, now you cannot be nice to another woman, either. No matter what you do, you’ll always end up being accused of getting in their pants.
By Nick Roy
Every nice gesture meted out to another woman- be it out of kindness or politeness is considered to be flirting by your jealous girlfriend. Just as you cannot mention any other woman in front of her, now you cannot be nice to another woman, either. No matter what you do, you’ll always end up being accused of getting in their pants.
By Nick Roy
