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What To Do When You Hate Your Girlfriend's Friends


You're dating a new woman, and you're totally excited about her. Everything's been great: The sex is off the charts, she wants to watch football games with you on the weekends, and she'll actually enjoy the game and not say anything stupid. She’s cool as can be. You know the type. It's almost like hanging out with your buddies — except she's hot, which makes her far better than hanging out with your friends. 

Her Intolerable Friends

Your girlfriend's friends? Well, she's got some. Problem is, they’re nothing like her. All of her friends irritate you, they drive you crazy and you absolutely hate being around them. 
 
She has one friend who constantly tries to compete with you for your girl’s attention, and you end up having to just walk away. She's also got a friend who’s just a bitter pill. She's always asking you to set her up on a date with one of your friends. She's constantly complaining about her dating life. When are you going to introduce her to all your friends? She’s also got the self-absorbed friend. The one who is pretty attractive, but every time you're sitting next to her talks your ear off about anything and everything that you're not interested in. She brags about all the great things she’s done and all the great places she’s been to this week. Then you try to contribute, and she doesn’t hear a word you say. She just likes hearing the sound of her own voice. Your girlfriend's also got the text-message-crazed friend. The girl who sends her a nonstop series of text messages from sunrise to midnight. And your new girlfriend feels the need to text her back because if she doesn't, she is going to feel neglected.

Do You Tell Her You Hate Her Friends?

This amazing, super-sexy, football-watching woman has the most annoying group of friends you've ever come across in your entire life — and you hate them all. What can you do about it? Do you tell her that you absolutely hate her friends? Do you tell her that you never want to hang out with her friends again and that they constantly ruin what could be great moments? 
 
As a matter of fact, just the other night the chronic-text-messaging friend texted her four times right in the middle of a hot, passionate kiss. It broke the moment, she looked down at all the unread messages and texted back. That started a 15-minute text conversation about something ridiculous. 

So, do you tell her you hate her friends? No, you can't do that. These are the girls she hangs out with, and it’s not really any of your business who she likes spending time with. But you do have to sit through a clear conversation with her and lay out what is annoying you. You have to tell her that when you're hanging out, you want to keep the texting-our-friends-thing to a minimum. Tell her, “I'll make you a deal: I don't text my friends, you don't text your friends. Let's just hang out and spend time together.” 

How To Deal With Her Friends

When you're at a party together, you need to make fun of the situation. Say, “Hey, babe, don't leave me alone in the corner with Carol, the chronic complainer.” Make up nicknames for your girlfriend's friends. Have some fun with it; make sure you can both laugh about it. That way she knows that even though you can handle yourself, you're not really into talking to her annoying friends, and she will come to your protection in a fun way (which you'll need from time to time). 
 
You'll never get rid of her friends. It’s not fair to try to force her to choose between you and them, and, if anything, it’s a good way to get you to lose this girl. At the end of the day, her friends will probably outlast you anyway. No matter how hot you are for this relationship and how great you think it may be, it will probably end up fizzling out at some point. Most relationships fizzle out, and until you find the right one, you've got to learn how to put up with your girlfriend's annoying friends, because the same thing is probably going to happen with the next one down the line. 

How To Put Up With Her Friends

I know when I'm dating a new woman and her friends are absolutely annoying, I still try my best to have a fun time with them. As I suggested before, I come up with nicknames for all of them. “Hey, is that Tracy the texter right now? Tell her we are about to have some great sex and you will text her right back.” 
 
I will constantly make nicknames and play with it. As the old saying goes, if you can beat ’em, join ’em. But the lesson to be learned is that you've got to take control of the situation. I was dating a woman several years back, and her friends were some of the most annoying people I’ve ever met in my life (even more annoying than the ones that I just described). So when we were all together, which would eventually happen, I’d sit back, laugh and hang out. Then I would pull my girlfriend aside and say, “Can you believe what your friend just said? That was absolutely the most ridiculous thing in the entire world!” I would find anything funny about them, and I‘d point it out and talk about it. 

But the minute that you tell her that you hate her best friends, that you don't even like to see her friends, it is going to put a wall between the two of you. The woman you’re with wants you to love every bit of her, and she wants to be accepted in every way, shape and form. So you can't tell her that you hate her friends, but it doesn’t mean you have to pretend to like them. What you can do is have fun with it. Make the best of the situation you’re in. Make up fun little nicknames and turn it into a game so these woman do not drive you crazy. 

Remember, you’re most likely going to be gone before her friends are.






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