You've dated a lot of women and have always thought that commitment
was not meant for you. But, off late, there is a woman who is always in
your mind and you find yourself preferring the idea of spending the
night with her as opposed to...well, just spending the night with her.
And there you go, somewhere in the tiny corner of your brain, alarm
bells start ringing, and you wonder what's happening to you - even
though you know the answer. There is no sure shot way to tell if she's
the real deal, especially if it's happening to you for the first time.
But, here are some telling signs that you're actually in love.
You'll do whatever it takes to impress her
You spend hours shopping with her instead of going out with your boys
for the game. You don't mind eating at the vegetarian restaurant. A
walk after dinner? Yes, bring that on, too. You're willing to bend
rules, try new things and go that extra mile for her- even if that
includes compromising on your gaming time. Chances are it's that crazy
stupid love.
You can't stop thinking about her
She comes into your thoughts constantly and you find yourself staring
off into space. You often wonder what she might be doing or what can
you text her without actually disturbing her. You want her to be
thinking of you to, so you make up little excuses to call and say hi.
Yes, you're a goner!
You love spending time with her
You feel the intense desire to spend more and more time with her. You
want to share various stories with her and in return want a glimpse of
her world too. You want to do things together and don't mind if that
includes holding her bags. Your evenings are mostly spent with her and
you look forward to the following morning as well. True, isn't it? If
you just said yes, then the love bug has bitten you, my dear friend.
Your priorities change
The extra gym time on weekdays are suddenly passé and so are working
weekends, because your priorities have changed. You don't mind
cancelling your evening plans if she is free for dinner. You also don't
mind missing the workout session that you wouldn't have missed for the
world. You see your to-do list changing and there are other obligations
to fulfill. This only means you're in love!
You start thinking about the future...with her in it!
Once upon a time, the future with any woman
only comprised of a Saturday night date, but with this woman, the
future seems infinite. Not only do you look forward to seeing her this
weekend, but many weekends from now on. If you plan a holiday, you know
it's going to be with her. And when you get an invitation for a wedding
four months from now, you know exactly who's going to be your date. We
hereby announce that the cupid has indeed struck!
