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| Trust is one of the most important pillars on which a relationship stands. |
If there is no trust, then no matter how much you love one another the relationship won’t survive. From this it is very clear that you ought to trust your girlfriend. But then again, trust is not all that easy to come by. It must be cultivated, honed and nourished. One has to make a serious effort to build a trustworthy relationship.
Communicate
Endless times we have told our readers how important it is to communicate with one another in a relationship. There has to be room for both your views and opinions. You must make strive to create a relationship wherein you can share everything and anything with one another. This free flowing communication will help in the building of trust.
Be unbiased
For the most part, all doubts are a manifestation of one’s imagination. Humans make use of their extra fertile brains to string threads and create a knotty piece of cloth that can complicate one’s lives. When in a relationship, it is important that you stay unbiased. You have to get into one with an open mind and take things as they come without letting your imagination run wild.
Be involved
One way to build trust in the relationship is to be involved with one another. By involved we mean that you need to be an integral and indispensable part of each other’s life without really breathing down one another’s neck. The more involved you’ll are, the more you will know what the other person feels, thinks. This will not only result in you coming close but will also help build trust in the relationship.
Start anew
One mistake that must be avoided at all costs is to not let your past hamper your present. Your dating history or her relationship past must not interfere with your current relationship. Making this decision to start anew together is the best thing you can do for your present and future.
Trust does not come easy. And you have to work on it. But once trust is established, you will be able to reap the benefits of the most gratifying and fulfilling relationship ever!
By Hilonee Furia
