Ask any woman what they love in a man; chances are 8 out of 10 will say 'someone who can tickle my funny bone.' Women, from all culture creed, age, strata and caste, appreciate humour and men who produce it, effortlessly. If you think you posses the trait, then look no further. We tell you 5 ways in which you can put your talent to effective use.
1) Don't mimic her
Everyone around you has always told you that you can mimic and are rather good at it. However, it's important you don't spring them on her in the first meeting. Hold your horses for the second or the third date, when she asks you 'what's your secret talent?' You're bound to get a giggle from her. Needless to say, it's not going to be her that you'll be mimicking.
Everyone around you has always told you that you can mimic and are rather good at it. However, it's important you don't spring them on her in the first meeting. Hold your horses for the second or the third date, when she asks you 'what's your secret talent?' You're bound to get a giggle from her. Needless to say, it's not going to be her that you'll be mimicking.
2) Laugh at yourself
One of the most attractive things in a man is his self-deprecating humor. Show her that you can easily laugh at yourself. No girl wants to date a serious man. Moreover this quality can also help you in the dating phase. Don't worry if you spill food or drink down your shirt, stay cool- and just laugh it off. It really helps.
One of the most attractive things in a man is his self-deprecating humor. Show her that you can easily laugh at yourself. No girl wants to date a serious man. Moreover this quality can also help you in the dating phase. Don't worry if you spill food or drink down your shirt, stay cool- and just laugh it off. It really helps.
3) Be original
So, your favourite stand-up comedian is Russel Peters? Great! But, don't make it too obvious by quoting him in front of her. After all, she deserves more than a well-rehearsed line. Stealing is stealing and one should always have a unique perspective on worldly things- and that includes humour as well. Making her laugh is no rocket science either, if you think of something that makes you laugh, chances are it'll make her laugh too.
So, your favourite stand-up comedian is Russel Peters? Great! But, don't make it too obvious by quoting him in front of her. After all, she deserves more than a well-rehearsed line. Stealing is stealing and one should always have a unique perspective on worldly things- and that includes humour as well. Making her laugh is no rocket science either, if you think of something that makes you laugh, chances are it'll make her laugh too.
4) Modesty is a virtue
You're wit has always been praised by your mother and friends. Good for you. But, getting complacent with that to the point that it comes off as self-indulgence is not cool. She's your mother at the end of the day and she's going to love even the most mediocre things about you. Remember, a confident man is a turn on, but a delusional man with warped sense of superiority and audacity is not.
You're wit has always been praised by your mother and friends. Good for you. But, getting complacent with that to the point that it comes off as self-indulgence is not cool. She's your mother at the end of the day and she's going to love even the most mediocre things about you. Remember, a confident man is a turn on, but a delusional man with warped sense of superiority and audacity is not.
5) Her jokes are important too
If the roles are reversed, then make sure to laugh at her jokes. There is a possibility that they'll suck, but don't make it so obvious. Letting out a chuckle or two will make her feel good that she can make you laugh as well. Share the joy, especially if you like her and want to take the relationship forward.
By Nikita Mukherjee
If the roles are reversed, then make sure to laugh at her jokes. There is a possibility that they'll suck, but don't make it so obvious. Letting out a chuckle or two will make her feel good that she can make you laugh as well. Share the joy, especially if you like her and want to take the relationship forward.
By Nikita Mukherjee
