A strong
relationship is a marathon—not a sprint. So it’s going to take more than
the occasional pick-me-up or romantic holiday to keep it happy, healthy
and, most importantly, evolving. In a great relationship and want to
keep it that way? Here’s your monthly checklist, friends.
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Skip town
Our patterns of everyday life can just get so darn routine—the
easiest way to remedy this is with travel. While jet-setting isn’t
always possible on a monthly basis, you should still make an effort to
get outside of your bubble (and troubles) together with a quick trip.
Perhaps a weekend escape to a cozy B&B, or maybe just a lunch in the
next town over? These micro-adventures serve as a reminder of the
endless possibilities this world has to offer—and the fact that
you're partners in exploring it.
Socialize solo
Hanging out with family and
friends as a unit is great. But equally important? Taking the time to
nurture your own personal connections without your spouse in
tow. Translation: You don’t need to bring your hubby to your bestie’s
birthday party. In addition to deepening your own relationships, it will
also give you breathing room—and keep you from getting totally sick of
each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder is the realest idiom.
Trust.
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Share a romantic meal
When we go on overdrive,
food becomes more about utility than enjoyment. And on busy weeknights,
we often find ourselves rushing through dinner, if only to get the
dishwasher loaded and kids in bed. Which is why it’s so important to
slow down and indulge in a romantic meal at least once a month.
Have cash to spare? Treat yourselves to a meal on the town. On a
budget? Ship the kids to Nana’s, cook in, and add some candlelight to
the mix. Either way, dedicate an entire meal to catching up and enjoying
your great company.
Give 'gifts'
No, you don't have to shower your
S.O. with lavish presents—but a thoughtful gesture goes a long way. Like
picking up a bottle of their favorite red wine on the way home because
you know they've had a crappy day. Or toting back a small, kitschy
souvenir from your work trip, just because. These small acts of giving
subtly remind your partner that you’re always thinking of them.
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