Everyone wants to put his or her best foot forward on a first date,
so naturally, people tend to gloss over the truth or, in other words,
make things sound better than they are. This is generally done in a
harmless way, so let's consider these as "white lies" for the most part
rather than "all-out" lies. For women, here are some of the common
things the ladies will gloss over or fib a bit about when on a date!
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She may still
be torn up inside over a breakup or a past love, but she'll gloss over
it and act as if it doesn't really bother her still. Most likely, she's
ready to date (or maybe not), but that heartbreak made quite a shatter
in her.
The trend is
muscular but sexy, and let's face it: women have a lot of pressure to
look a certain way. So if she's not as active as she "thinks" she should
be, she may exaggerate to seem more fit and together.
A woman may
make it seem as if she has had many dates even if she has not recently.
Why? Well, women know the fun is in the chase and you appear more
desirable when you're a little bit out of reach. She may want to appear
as desirable and not desperate.
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She might say
she went on an amazing vacation, but perhaps it was a really small
getaway. This is only because she'd like to sound interesting to you,
all while leaving out small facts like that her girlfriend annoyed her
on the trip there . . .
Whether she
has a parent who is absent from her or she's raising a child who is
missing out on a dad, she may be reluctant to share that information up
front. Most likely, you won't find this out for some time, so it's not a
lie but a slow reveal.
She may say
she isn't that hungry and you may wonder if she is "one of those girls
who doesn't eat," but truth is, she's either too nervous and lying to
cover it or she ate before you went out so she wouldn't go starving due
to her nerves.
Sure, her
friend "really" needs her help right now or her aunt is in the hospital .
. . or she's lying to cut the date short. While men may just say they
have to go do something, women pull the guilt/sudden accident card out
of their own self-guilt.
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"Yeah, I feel
very self-assured and confident." This is an innocent white lie. Would
you want her to sit on the date and list all her imagined or real flaws?
Nope!
I don't mean a
serious relationship or spouse, but if she's talking to someone else,
this isn't going to come up during the first date. It will only come up
down the line if she's still seeing them and wants to see you, too.
If she just
completed a year of recovery, lost a parent or close friend, or lost her
job, she's going to avoid talking about it and may gloss over or avoid
anything that might bring up those topics.
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A Heartbreak
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Exercise and Activity
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Availability
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Vacations
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Absent Parent
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Mealtime
An Excuse
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Her Confidence
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Another Love Interest
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Major Trauma
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