Do you suspect that your wife or girlfriend may be cheating on you with another man?
If she is indeed unfaithful, she will try her best to cover up her tracks, better than an experienced cat burglar. But there are certain obvious signs that cheaters give away no matter how hard they try to cover their secret sojourns. So, if your gal displays some of the following signs, there is something seriously wrong with your relationship.
Sex turns sour
There was a time when the two of you made passionate love and action between the sheets was hot enough to speed up global warming. Now she’s no longer interested in jumping into the bed and may actually seem bored by your performance. So if can no longer satisfy her sexually, someone else may be rubbing her the right way.
You no longer have those long romantic conversations
You can’t remember the last time when the two of you shared a long romantic conversation. Now every time you try to get her involved in a romantic banter she unceremoniously brushes you aside or lashes at you about something really trivial. This may be her way of subconsciously trying to validate her little tryst.
An old friend creeps in
An old friend from her college days or a friendly colleague at work has started inching his way into her conversations with you. But when you want to know about this mysterious friend she acts vague and steers clear of giving away any secrets.
She no longer seems to want you around
She no longer calls you up asking you to drop by at her place and has a plethora of excuses when you ask her to so. Moreover, she has started doing more things on her own, and has completely stopped consulting you about all future plans. In short, she has started dropping hints that she no longer needs you to be with her.
She never gives you a straight answer
Always be wary of anyone who refuses to answer the most straightforward of questions or answers them only after making you repeat them twice. It’s a classic example of the mind searching for a lie. So if your girl gets all crazy when you ask simple questions about why it took her so long to get back from work, she may be hiding something... or someone.
Her daily routine changes
If she has found herself a secret (for you) admirer, then there will be a definite shift in her daily priorities. Weekends will no longer mean going out for a movie and dinner. Suddenly she has all these plans, none of which involve you in any way whatsoever.
She avoids your family and friends
The simple fact that she’s started avoiding all family functions and longer wants to hangout with your friends may indicate that she’s suffering from something called "cheater's remorse". She may already be suffering from the guilt of cheating and actually interacting with those who love you so much makes it all the more harder for her to endure the mental anguish.
She starts paying more attention to her looks
You may have told her a million times that you love her just the way she is, but its no longer about you dude. If there is a sudden urge in her to improve her style and work on her looks, she may be trying to dazzle her new fling.
Don't blindly believe that your woman will never cheat on you and don't rush to judgment either. Just because she may be displaying some of the signs mentioned it need not necessarily mean that she’s cheating you. So be absolutely sure before doing anything drastic.
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