Too often, a honeymoon takes a backseat to all the wedding planning.
But shouldn’t you give it just a little more attention? After all, the
wedding is for your family and friends, but the honeymoon is just for
you. It’s a time to relax and reflect, but most of all enjoy each other.
Here are the basic things you need to know:
Decide on a Honeymoon Budget:
You
may have already decided this when planning your wedding budget. If
not, sit down and do this before you decide anything else. Figure out if
you have any frequent flier miles or hotel miles that can be used
towards your trip. Consider putting all of the wedding expenses on a credit card
that earns frequent flier miles for your honeymoon. (Be sure to pay it
off every month – you don’t want to start a new marriage with a ton of
new debt.)
Decide When to Go and For How Long:
First,
figure out how many vacation days you have accrued, and how many of them
you’ll need before the wedding for last minute planning.
(It’s not uncommon for brides to take a week off, and grooms to
take a couple of days.) Do you want to leave the morning after your
wedding? Or, do you want to have some time after the wedding to unwind
and pack when you’ll be more focused on it, and take your honeymoon a
few days or even a few weeks later? Another option, for those who don’t
have a lot of vacation days, is to take a weekend “mini-moon” after the
wedding, and then take a long second honeymoon on your first
anniversary.
Decide Where to Go on Your Honeymoon
: Each
of you should take a few minutes to separately write down what you
envision doing on your honeymoon. Do you want somewhere warm or cold? Do
you want to go someplace far away and new, or someplace close to home?
Do you want a resort where there will be other honeymooners to socialize
with, or someplace secluded where it will just be the two of you? Do
you want to be in a city with museums, restaurants and nightlife or, do
you want there to be lots of athletic activities available? Perhaps
you’ll just want to spend a lot of time in the room! Once each of you
has your list, compare. Where there are differences, see if there’s one
place that might have the best of both worlds.
Consider Visiting a Travel Agent:
While
most people are booking travel online these days, a travel agent can be
extremely helpful when planning a honeymoon. Not only will he or she
have ideas about places you might not have thought of, but they’ll be
familiar with those details like “do you need a visa?” and when the
rainy season is. They might also have special packages or deals to pass
on to you.
Learn More about Where You’re Going:
It’s
never too early to get excited. As soon as you’ve picked a spot, buy a
travel book, so you can read about all there is to do and see.
Arrange for Passports and Visas, if Necessary. Make Sure Your Driver’s License is Up to Date.
These
pesky little details can take time and therefore are one of the first
things you should do, once you know where you are going. I’ll never
forget the trip where I got to the counter of the rental car agency only
to be told that my driver’s license had expired only days before.
Luckily the person I was with could rent the car, but I would have been
better off with a little forethought.
By Nina Callaway
Weddings Expert
