Relationships have been there since the Stone Age period. What is yet to be
accomplished is strong healthy relationships. We can’t deny that there has
never existed a healthy relationship. In fact, not one or two but many of
them. However their contribution is negligible! Therefore what is a healthy
relationship? This is a relationship where two people work hand in hand
towards a common goal. It is not abusive in any way but partners solve any
arising issues amicably through compromise. Relationship is not all about
finding a perfect person but rather seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
Therefore, what makes up a healthy relationship? Here are some tips:
1
Trust
This is one of the pillars for a strong relationship. Without being
trustworthy to one another, the relationship is bound to end miserably. Avoid
doubting and suspecting your partner on petty issues. Always ensure that your
partner feels secure about your relationship. This can involve telling your
friends about him/her in his/her presence. This will make them build trust in
you too.
2
Be Able To Compromise
Many relationships where partners do not practice compromising is as well as
dead. This is because when the disagreements arise, there is no one who is
ready to swallow the inner pride so as to take and implement the other
partner’s view. It is so obvious that partners won’t agree on everything and
therefore there is need to compromise.
3
Honesty
No relationship can go anywhere if both partners do not speak the truth to
each other. This is because ‘small’ lies grow into bigger lies and later
mature to infidelity. Therefore, being honest is one of the fundamental
pillars of a strong relationship.
4
Decent Communication
In order to develop a healthy romantic connection, communication is
inevitable. This is because it is only communication through which you can
share your desires, ambitions, what you would like your partner to change
among other relationships issues. Besides this, you should also take time to
text or call your partner when he/she is at work just to find out how they are
doing. Also, send some romantic messages to them as well as appreciate how
wonderful they make your world to be.
5
Get Time To Spend With Each Other
Many partners do not take the time to spend with each other. This is because
of prioritizing other issues like career, children, investments and other
issues. However, lacking time to enjoy with your partner makes them feel
neglected, lonely and dumped. Therefore it is important to spare time and
relax, chat and enjoy with them.
6
Forgiveness
Sometimes a partner might be moody and then say something that is quite
offensive. If that is not frequent, then you should be able to forgive
him/her. It does not cost a thing to forgive someone. Always be willing to
forgive your partner all the time except cases where the offences have become
monotonous and intentional.
Maintaining a strong healthy relationship is not as easy as many people think.
It requires sacrifice, understanding and commitment. The above tips act as a
foundation of building a strong relationship from the time of dating to the
time of marriage and during the marriage.
Arrange by Julius Choudhury
