Ask any man who recently had a break up as to how it happened, and chances are 8 out of 10 would say they had not seen this coming. Sadly, it’s nothing but the truth. He didn't see the end coming because he missed all the obvious signs, and yes, there are signs. There can be many reasons why she is gearing up to dump you, the question is- are you ready to recognize them and mend your ways? Here are 5 signs that you need to watch out for.
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You pose a threat to her friendships
She wants to break up with you because you’re slowly driving all her friends away. Either you don’t let her hang out with her friends, or you tag along making things awkward for everyone, there’s something you’re doing that is driving a wedge between her and her gang. Remember, she wants her friends around in her life, and if you keep this up then she will end up choosing them over you.
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She wants to break up with you because you’re slowly driving all her friends away. Either you don’t let her hang out with her friends, or you tag along making things awkward for everyone, there’s something you’re doing that is driving a wedge between her and her gang. Remember, she wants her friends around in her life, and if you keep this up then she will end up choosing them over you.
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You’re a mamma’s boy
Agreed, she found it endearing at first that you had such a close relationship with your mom. But, the fact that your every single move involves mommy dearest annoys her no limit. It irritates her that there is another woman seemingly in control of your life. That doesn't mean she wants to control you, she just doesn't want her relationship to be dependent on a third party.
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Agreed, she found it endearing at first that you had such a close relationship with your mom. But, the fact that your every single move involves mommy dearest annoys her no limit. It irritates her that there is another woman seemingly in control of your life. That doesn't mean she wants to control you, she just doesn't want her relationship to be dependent on a third party.
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You stopped caring about her
You always asked about her life, her work, her office, her interests and anything she found important. But one fine day you just stopped asking. You probably assumed that if anything significant happened, you’ll be the first person to know. Not true. She stopped telling you anything because you stopped asking her. You need to start taking interest in her life again, because otherwise she’d be better off without you.
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You always asked about her life, her work, her office, her interests and anything she found important. But one fine day you just stopped asking. You probably assumed that if anything significant happened, you’ll be the first person to know. Not true. She stopped telling you anything because you stopped asking her. You need to start taking interest in her life again, because otherwise she’d be better off without you.
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You constantly pick fights
You had disagreements in the beginning too. Every couple fights once in a while. Lately, however, it seems as though the fights are more frequent and nasty. It feels to her that you’re picking fights on purpose. You need to stop doing this now because eventually the fights will get old and tiring, and the only option that would be left is to eliminate what’s causing the friction- which will be the failing relationship.
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You had disagreements in the beginning too. Every couple fights once in a while. Lately, however, it seems as though the fights are more frequent and nasty. It feels to her that you’re picking fights on purpose. You need to stop doing this now because eventually the fights will get old and tiring, and the only option that would be left is to eliminate what’s causing the friction- which will be the failing relationship.
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You’ve lost all ambition
You’ve given up on life, and now it seems she is giving up on you. For some reason you’re not the man who she fell in love with. The guy who she admired had ambitions, goals and a will to succeed. It’s not your fault that you failed somewhere in the middle, but it’s surely your mistake that you didn’t attempt to get back up stronger and more determined.
By Nick Roy
You’ve given up on life, and now it seems she is giving up on you. For some reason you’re not the man who she fell in love with. The guy who she admired had ambitions, goals and a will to succeed. It’s not your fault that you failed somewhere in the middle, but it’s surely your mistake that you didn’t attempt to get back up stronger and more determined.
By Nick Roy
