"Unfortunately I am still in love with my ex but my ex is not in love
with me or may be my ex is. what a mess.What should I do now?".If you
ever found yourself thinking like this or if that even sounds a little
like you, then you should know today, you are not the only one.You will
not believe a good number of people still have touching feelings about
their past love.If you watch MTV you must have seen the show X-factor.It
is a good example of this fact.It is also a fact that if you are
feeling like this probably your ex too is feeling the same no matter
what he/she says.That how ever is true in cases where your ex really did
love you ones.
But how can you find out if your ex still love you, should you call them and let them know? Or, should you keep your distance and play it cool and hope they'll realize that they still love you?
Instead of risking humiliation by pouring your guts out to your ex - right before they introduce you to their new love, take things slow and get a lay of the land. This can be done in several ways, you can ask your friends to discreetly ask around about your ex. They can find out if they're seeing anyone or if they've been going to the same places that the two of you used to go (if so, this could be a sign that they're hoping to 'bump' into you. Especially if it's a place they never went before the two of you got together). Just encourage your friends to use discretion. If your friends are the type of people who don't have a real strong grasp on discretion, this may not be the best approach for you to try.
Another way to find out if your ex has any feelings for you still, is to ask them. Again, discreetly. As we discussed above, you don't want to take the chance of being humiliated so instead of coming right out and asking use subtlety to find out. Call them up, say 'hi' ask what they've been up to. It's all very casual and you're not committing to anything, you're just trying to be friendly. It can be hard to take it slow when all you can think is 'I'm still in love with my ex and my ex might love me too' but you have to.
Don't start asking them about the people they are seeing. This will either come across as being an interrogation, or they'll guess your real intentions. Instead just forget that the two of you ever had a past and just be the fun loving, easy going person they fell in love with the first time the two of you got together.
Keep the reminiscing to a minimum unless they bring it up. If they do make a lot of references to the past it's very likely that you've got your answer. If they really didn't still care for you it's not very plausible that they'd keep talking about the past, as a matter of fact, it's not real likely that they would have met you for coffee in the first place.
If they bring it up, or you think that they are receptive, talk about the two of you. Again, if it seems like the right time to do it, tell them that you still care for them. This doesn't necessarily have to be a confession of your undying love, it's not unusual to still care for an ex, so if they react badly you're not on the hook. If they say that they still care for you or that they miss you, it might just be the beginning of the second chance for the two of you!
But how can you find out if your ex still love you, should you call them and let them know? Or, should you keep your distance and play it cool and hope they'll realize that they still love you?
Instead of risking humiliation by pouring your guts out to your ex - right before they introduce you to their new love, take things slow and get a lay of the land. This can be done in several ways, you can ask your friends to discreetly ask around about your ex. They can find out if they're seeing anyone or if they've been going to the same places that the two of you used to go (if so, this could be a sign that they're hoping to 'bump' into you. Especially if it's a place they never went before the two of you got together). Just encourage your friends to use discretion. If your friends are the type of people who don't have a real strong grasp on discretion, this may not be the best approach for you to try.
Another way to find out if your ex has any feelings for you still, is to ask them. Again, discreetly. As we discussed above, you don't want to take the chance of being humiliated so instead of coming right out and asking use subtlety to find out. Call them up, say 'hi' ask what they've been up to. It's all very casual and you're not committing to anything, you're just trying to be friendly. It can be hard to take it slow when all you can think is 'I'm still in love with my ex and my ex might love me too' but you have to.
Don't start asking them about the people they are seeing. This will either come across as being an interrogation, or they'll guess your real intentions. Instead just forget that the two of you ever had a past and just be the fun loving, easy going person they fell in love with the first time the two of you got together.
Keep the reminiscing to a minimum unless they bring it up. If they do make a lot of references to the past it's very likely that you've got your answer. If they really didn't still care for you it's not very plausible that they'd keep talking about the past, as a matter of fact, it's not real likely that they would have met you for coffee in the first place.
If they bring it up, or you think that they are receptive, talk about the two of you. Again, if it seems like the right time to do it, tell them that you still care for them. This doesn't necessarily have to be a confession of your undying love, it's not unusual to still care for an ex, so if they react badly you're not on the hook. If they say that they still care for you or that they miss you, it might just be the beginning of the second chance for the two of you!
Several women
made the comment in their emails that basically said "if she
is not BEGGING you to go down on her then you aren't doing it
right!". Women with multiple partners said only about
20% of the guys they were with were any good at "eating pussy".
Right then I decided to
do extensive research and become a full fledged expert at cunnilingus
so I could share the knowledge with all men so they wouldn't have
potentially HUMILIATING and CRUSHING experiences.
In addition to
compiling all the tips and suggestions from my readers I did a lot
of technical and scientific research on the female anatomy, nerve
endings, hormones and anything that can contribute to giving women
the most outrageous of orgasms.
It was time for
me to do my own "personal research". During lovemaking I
slipped my head
down between my wife's legs and tried out some of the tips and
technique my subscribers had shared. I soon heard an "Oh WOW" from
my wife. Clearly, she had never had this pleasure from
me before.
